Our time at Sivagangai was nothing short of a wonderful experience. We spent 25 memorable months there, from 22nd May 2023 until 27th June 2025, during which Asha served as the District Collector. It was not just a place of stay—it became our extended home, filled with warmth, affection, and unforgettable bonds.
From the very beginning, we were embraced by the love and hospitality of the people of Sivagangai, especially the incredible staff at the Camp Office—both inside and outside the residence. It truly felt like an extended family, with a rich blend of cultures, habits, and emotions. For me and Jayasree, it was as though we gained many sons and daughters during our stay.
Priyatharsini, the team leader of the Camp Office, was our pillar. A dynamic, committed, and highly capable individual, she led the team with unmatched energy and grace. Her discipline, sharp mind, and dedication ensured both the official and residential spaces functioned smoothly. Her care extended beyond duty—she tracked my safety and wellbeing even during my short trips with the concern of a family member. Her family became part of our daily conversations, and we were deeply involved in her daughters’ education, just as we were with our granddaughter Padma. She even arranged regular health check-ups for me, always thoughtful about my well-being.
Balamurugan was the quiet powerhouse behind the seamless running of the house. He had an uncanny ability to spot and resolve every little issue without needing instruction. His day would begin at 6 a.m., preparing a special black tea for me made with palm jaggery, clove, ginger, and cardamom. Breakfast would be ready by 8:30 a.m., and he would ensure Padma’s school bag, shoes, socks, water bottle, and lunch were all perfectly arranged. His energy and work ethic were phenomenal—like an eagle spotting its prey, he identified work before anyone else noticed. He was an immense support to Jayasree.
Subhadra, our cheerful cook, shared a beautiful bond with Padma. They were like friends, spending their evenings together after school. Alongside cooking, Subhadra joined Jayasree and Padma for farm visits, enjoying the harvest and bonding with the goats.
Amutharaj (Amudan) was another of Padma’s close companions. A natural comedian with Vadivelu-style humour, he shared endless light-hearted banter with Padma. She became his tutor in English, Malayalam, music, dance, and more, while he taught her Tamil. A multi-talented soul, Amudan was also a creative mind—crafting school models and DIY projects with flair.
Kaleeswaran, another of Padma’s "students," always brightened her days with his friendly presence.
Veeran, officially the cleaner, was much more—a silent, sincere boy who became a dear family member and a friend to Padma.
Thankaraj and Suresh, who managed the farm, established a warm relationship with us. Suresh, whom Padma fondly called “Sureshannae,” was especially close to her, just like Subhadra.
The dhobi Aashirvadam and wife Bhanu were devout and dutiful, always meticulous with their work.
Muthuraman, one of our drivers, called me Appa like many others. Jayasree would often say, even our own son Sreekuttan doesn't call me in such a soft tone! Ravi, though he left after an accident, and Jayakumar, who served earlier, were also excellent drivers. Jayakumar’s daughters, Ananya and Dhananya, visited us and became good friends with Padma.
Prabhu, Asha’s personal assistant, was a smart and efficient coordinator who handled responsibilities diligently. Ramesh and others too ensured all our needs were met without us even having to ask.
Murugesan, the Collector’s vehicle driver, was more than just a driver—he showed a touching concern for Asha’s daily routine. Sebastian, soft-spoken and kind, also stood out for his caring nature.
In the office, Sreeni, Murugan, and Rajasekharan left lasting impressions with their friendly and committed work.Gunman Vicky, Suresh and others were so close as family members and friends to Padma.Although Alagu was transferred early on, he continued to maintain the relationship even after the transfer.
The person who cleaned the campus, lovingly addressed as "Ayya", worked quietly and devotedly, almost like a saint. His dedication and humility are rare in today’s world.
Even the sentries at the main gate, who changed every day, left fond memories in our hearts.
Other regular visitors included Sumitra, the dance teacher and her family, and the tailor, Mahalekshmi ,all of whom contributed to the warm, homely atmosphere.
And then, there was Padmavathi, the little spark in our lives, who thoroughly enjoyed every moment at the Camp Office. Her bonds with everyone—from the cooks to the drivers—were special and genuine.
Our son, Sreekuttan, currently working in Ramanathapuram, would visit us during holidays. The staff eagerly awaited his visits—he was a natural entertainer, involving everyone in cooking, sports, music, and dance. Though young, he was lovingly called “Annan” by all.
Sub Collector Ayush was like a son to us — a regular visitor to our home who shared many joyful moments, often playing with Padma. We truly miss him too.
Asha got a parent warmth from Justice.M.Chockalingam and A.R.P.Murugesan needs special mention.They considered Padma as their granddaughter and she also had such a warmth sharing the time with them and the hospitality.
The love and affection Padma received at Oxford school also need special mention.The founder of the school Syamala Venkatesan, teachers Pramila,Suba Pavitra,Nisha and staff members made her days at Oxford happy and prosperous.
I might have missed names,but all people involved in many ways remain in our heart with colours and sorry if anybody left mentioned.
In total, these two years at Sivagangai will remain a golden period in our lives. We leave with hearts full of gratitude and memories etched deep in our souls.
Farewell, Sivagangai! Thank you for gifting us such a beautiful chapter in our life journey
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